The Biggest Problem Christian Men Have
Wayne Beveridge
June 23, 2008
The biggest problem Christian men have
If not dealt with will bring destruction
Some men position themselves
In the path of potential accidents
Then say it was not my fault
Some men that talk in tongues
Hands lifted up and praising God
They have life resurrected from the dead
And are still wrapped up in grave clothes
Carnal wrappings of this world
Men position themselves for accidents
They just happen to always be looking
When a woman gets out of her car
Or slides out of a restaurant booth
Then saying it was not my fault
She is the one that did it
Men position themselves for accidents
Their eyes light up and drink in the sight
When another woman exposes some skin
Some men just happen to always be looking
Some skillfully place themselves to see
To drink in the sight as woman bends over
Trying to satisfy their lustful eyes
Some women position themselves to compete
With other women because their man looks
They feel compelled to draw the attention
Of the other woman’s man to get even
And give herself the satisfaction of thinking
I won this catty contest your man is looking at me
Most men have tunnel vision are just too dense to see
That it is not about them it is meant to hurt the wife
Men keep positioning themselves for accidents
And put another wound more scar tissue on the wife
Sometimes even in the midst of a Church service
She gets hurt by her man and the other woman too
The wife is hurt the husband gets angry
With what is the matter with you
Claiming I did not do anything wrong
Why are you so insanely jealous
Most men do not get it
The problem is with them not the wife
If you thought your wife was jealous
Now you know God needs to work on you
We cannot deal with what we do not confront
We cannot be delivered from what we did not do
If we deny having sin it will continue to grow
It will increase and develop into other sins
Most sins start with a look
Become flirtatious thoughts
Then a lustful touch
Then it is to late to stop
You partake of forbidden fruit
What harm can looking do
Eve looked at forbidden fruit
Touched it then she ate of it
What harm can looking do
Lot pitched his tent toward Sodom
Every time he went out he looked
Flirted with thoughts and desires
Until he entered into Sodom
It only started with a look
What harm can looking do
The strongest man in the world
Fell because he liked to look
To look at Philistine women
Philistines are a type of the flesh
It only started with a look
What harm can looking do
David a man after God’s own heart
Looked at a woman taking a bath
Then sinned with Bathsheba
In the end he lost his baby
The very thing that was birthed by him
Many do not recognize the damage
They have done until they lose their baby
The ministry that they birthed
It only started with a look
When a man looks at a woman with lust
He becomes an adulterer in his heart
Living a lie he is a liar and a thief
If we are hiding sin, we are living a lie
Secret sin and evil imaginations is living a lie
Lying to ourselves and to others
Some women take on his lie themselves
Believing that it is some how their fault
Thinking if I only looked better
Like those air brushed women
I could satisfy his lust
When a man looks at a woman with lust
He becomes a thief because he stole
What belonged to his wife his passion
And gave it to another woman
Getting angry when we are confronted
Is a smoke screen and a distraction
To change the subject when we do not want
To repent or change our way of life
So is running away or trying to escape
Evil men and seducers shall grow worse and worse
We will not make it through these end times
If we do not conquer lust it will destroy us
We are responsible for what we know
When we know it we must Repent!!!
If we want true revival it must begin in us
In our very own deceitful hearts
When we stop lying to ourselves
And open every closet to the cleansing blood
And acknowledge our sins ask for forgiveness
And our mates help in becoming consistent
When a man looks at a woman with lust
We hurt women and when they try to tell us
We don’t even care or understand the pain
The damage done to women is almost impossible
For men to comprehend thinking it is unimportant
When we rip their hearts out and then step on them to
Looking will cause us to make comparisons
Comparisons will cause dissatisfaction
Dissatisfaction with what you do have
The word says not to compare ourselves
I believe for that very reason
Dissatisfaction wants something else
The root problem of most trials in marriages
Are the result of one thing the lust of men’s eyes
You cannot be delivered from what you did not do
If you say you did not do it
How can God give you forgiveness
Then the enemy has the right to come back
And trouble you with that sin again
Wives understand theirs husband’s lust
Sometimes better than their husband’s do
They know who you look at and why
They know the look you once had for them
They see you as you stare with your eyes
Drinking in the body parts of other women
It is interesting that Pharoe hardened his heart
Five times He did so and five represents grace
He had grace and opportunity to repent five times
After which time God hardened Pharoe’s heart
Esau sold his birthright to satisfy his flesh
Then sought repentance with tears and found it not
Repentance is truly a gift offered by God
We can reject the love of God just so many times
Before God says enough this is your last opportunity
My wife had a dream of me leading a great army
And the enemy looked just the same as my army
She told me I had to learn to recognize my enemies
I learned those armies were in me
Lust that looked like love
Pride looked like self-confidence
Gluttony looked hunger
A judgmental spirit tries to hide as discernment
If you do not know your enemy how can you kill it
The enemy of our souls desires
To put thoughts in our minds and hearts
Thoughts that germinate and grow
Reproducing evil weeds or snake egg thoughts
Our mind is like a camera
Or a computer hard-drive
When we see an image the camera
Of our mind snaps a picture
Then saves it to our minds memory
Then with our imagination
We can bring it up for view
Over and over again
Trying to delete the image will not work
The enemy does not want us to lose those views
And will reproduce more copies for us to see
In some cameras a negative must be exposed
To the light to destroy the image upon it
Just as sin must be exposed to the light
To destroy the image and power it holds
On a hard drive the image must be repeatedly covered
With other images to make it unrecoverable
When our imagination attempts to replay an image
Cover it over again with the blood of Christ
The heart is deceitful above all things
And desperately wicked who can know it
Your heart will lie to you like nothing else can
It will lie to you about why you did things
Man if you think you do not have a problem with lust
Ask yourself why you look up when you hear
A woman’s footsteps or hear a woman’s voice
And not pay any attention when you hear a man
Confess your faults one to another
And pray one for another
That ye may be healed James 5:16
Think on whatsoever things are true, honest,
Just, pure, lovely and of good report
If there be any virtue and if there be
Any praise think on these
I pray we will no longer be able
To live, do or be a part of a lie
Wayne